Articles for NDErs

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Dr Lily Amorous

What a Near-Death Experiencer Needs: Quiet, Freedom, Truth, and an Authentic Home
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

What a Near-Death Experiencer Needs: Quiet, Freedom, Truth, and an Authentic Home

Near-death experiences (NDEs) often come uninvited and unanticipated, but their impact is enduring, radical, and life-altering. When someone has faced clinical death or come close to it, and encountered realities that transcend physical life—visions of light, reunions with beings of love, panoramic life reviews, or timeless states of unity—the return to ordinary human life can feel jarring, even unbearable.

NDErs frequently speak of their experience as “more real than real.” Upon return, the world they once knew can seem hollow, rushed, aggressive, or misaligned. Many try, and fail, to re-assimilate into society as they once knew it. Why? Because something deep within them has changed. Because they are no longer the person who left.

To thrive again—not merely survive—NDErs require a radically different way of being. They need space, silence, kindness, and authenticity. They need environments that honour sensitivity and stillness, and relationships that resonate with soul-level truth. This article explores the multidimensional needs of NDErs upon return, including changes in energy, lifestyle, values, and community, and offers insight into how loved ones, caregivers, and clinicians can support their post-NDE reality.

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The Re-Entry Problem After a Near-Death Experience: Bridging Two Worlds
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

The Re-Entry Problem After a Near-Death Experience: Bridging Two Worlds

For many who have undergone a near-death experience (NDE), the moment of return—the "coming back" to physical life—is often more bewildering than the experience itself. While the NDE may be profoundly peaceful, enlightening, and love-filled, the aftermath can bring emotional confusion, existential disorientation, and even a kind of homesickness that defies words.

This transitional challenge is known as the "re-entry problem"—a term coined by experiencers and researchers alike to describe the difficulty of reintegrating into everyday life after touching a realm beyond it.

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Choosing a Safe Therapist for Near-Death and Spiritually Transformative Experiences
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Choosing a Safe Therapist for Near-Death and Spiritually Transformative Experiences

When you’ve had a near-death experience (NDE) or a profound spiritual experience, it can change everything. The way you view life, death, relationships, and even your own identity might shift dramatically. These experiences can be deeply meaningful—and at times, disorienting, isolating, or misunderstood. Seeking support from a therapist can be a powerful way to integrate what you've been through, and continue to go through.

But not every therapist is equipped—emotionally, intellectually, or spiritually—to hold space for the depth and uniqueness of these experiences. Choosing a safe therapist for near-death and spiritual experiences means finding someone who can meet you with curiosity, not judgment; reverence, not reductionism.

This guide is here to help you navigate that process.

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Spiritual Emergencies: When Awakening Overwhelms
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Spiritual Emergencies: When Awakening Overwhelms

In an age where increasing numbers of people are engaging with practices such as meditation, energy healing, plant medicine, breathwork, and deep spiritual inquiry, the potential for profound transformation is greater than ever. But transformation is not always gentle. Sometimes, what begins as a spiritual opening can spiral into confusion, distress, or even crisis. This threshold between awakening and overwhelm is known as a spiritual emergency. This article presents information as to how to identify and respond to a spiritual emergency.

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Holding Space for the Sacred: How to Support Someone After a Near-Death Experience
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Holding Space for the Sacred: How to Support Someone After a Near-Death Experience

When someone you love or work with has had a near-death experience (NDE), it can feel as though they’ve gone somewhere beyond—and returned with a soul you both recognise and don’t. They may carry the memory of light, peace, beings, or vast cosmic knowledge. Or they may have returned through the darkness of a void, a tunnel, or a place they struggle to describe. However their journey unfolded, their return is rarely simple.

What many people don’t realise is that the most challenging part of an NDE isn’t necessarily what happened on “the other side”—it’s the part that comes afterward.

This is known as the re-entry. And it’s where you, as a supporter, companion, or professional, play an essential role.

In this article, we’ll explore how to support someone who has had an NDE with compassion, clarity, and care—so they can integrate their experience into life with dignity, safety, and meaning.

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Into the Void: Understanding the Dark Stillness in Near-Death Experiences
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Into the Void: Understanding the Dark Stillness in Near-Death Experiences

Among the many elements reported in near-death experiences (NDEs), one of the most mysterious and least understood is “The Void.” For some experiencers, it is an infinite realm of blackness, silence, and stillness. For others, it is a space of powerful transformation—a liminal zone where the boundaries of self and cosmos blur, and the ordinary structures of time and meaning dissolve.

While mainstream portrayals of NDEs often emphasise tunnels, light, and encounters with loving beings, the Void is less commonly discussed—perhaps because it resists language, challenges spiritual assumptions, and confronts us with the mystery at the heart of consciousness.

But for those who pass through it, the Void is anything but empty.

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Beyond the Threshold: Understanding Near-Death Experiences and the Continuity of Consciousness
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Beyond the Threshold: Understanding Near-Death Experiences and the Continuity of Consciousness

What happens when we die?

It’s a question that cuts across cultures, creeds, and centuries. While science has traditionally deferred to materialist frameworks—seeing consciousness as a by product of brain activity—some recent research challenges this view. Among the most provocative contributions is Dr. Pim van Lommel’s 2021 paper, The Continuity of Consciousness, which examines the phenomenon of near-death experiences (NDEs) through a clinical and scientific lens. Drawing on decades of cardiac arrest research, he argues that consciousness may exist independently of the physical brain.

This article explores common elements of NDEs, their implications for our understanding of the mind, and how this growing body of evidence forces us to rethink long-held assumptions about death, life, and consciousness itself.

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Traversing the Threshold: Commonalities and Differences Between Near-Death, Out-of-Body, and Spiritually Transformative Experiences
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Traversing the Threshold: Commonalities and Differences Between Near-Death, Out-of-Body, and Spiritually Transformative Experiences

Across cultures and histories, countless individuals have reported extraordinary experiences that challenge our understanding of consciousness, the soul, and what it means to be human. Among the most widely reported and researched are Near-Death Experiences (NDEs), Out-of-Body Experiences (OBEs), and Spiritually Transformative Experiences (STEs). While these experiences are often grouped together due to their transcendent nature and psychological impact, they are distinct phenomena, each with its own characteristics, triggers, and spiritual implications.

In this article, we will explore:

  • Definitions of each experience

  • Common elements across NDEs, OBEs, and STEs

  • Key differences in cause, content, and aftermath

  • The psychological and spiritual impact on experiencers

  • What these phenomena might tell us about consciousness and the nature of reality

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How to Disclose a Near-Death Experience: A Guide to Sharing Your Truth
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

How to Disclose a Near-Death Experience: A Guide to Sharing Your Truth

For many people who have had a near-death experience (NDE), the event marks a profound and life-altering moment—one that often shifts their perceptions of self, life, death, and the nature of existence. But what comes after the light, the tunnel, the sense of unity, or the life review? For many, one of the hardest parts is not the experience itself—it’s deciding whether, how, and when to talk about it.

Disclosing a near-death experience can be one of the most vulnerable things you do. It requires courage, discernment, and sometimes, a leap of faith. In a world that doesn’t always understand—or even believe—what you’ve gone through, speaking your truth takes on a deeper layer of risk and significance. But it can also be one of the most empowering, freeing, and healing steps in integrating your experience.

This article is a gentle guide to navigating that process. Whether you are wondering how to tell a loved one, a therapist, a spiritual leader, or the wider community, this guide will help you approach disclosure with clarity, safety, and confidence.


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