Articles for Supporters

of NDErs

Written By

Dr Lily Amorous

What a Near-Death Experiencer Needs: Quiet, Freedom, Truth, and an Authentic Home
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

What a Near-Death Experiencer Needs: Quiet, Freedom, Truth, and an Authentic Home

Near-death experiences (NDEs) often come uninvited and unanticipated, but their impact is enduring, radical, and life-altering. When someone has faced clinical death or come close to it, and encountered realities that transcend physical life—visions of light, reunions with beings of love, panoramic life reviews, or timeless states of unity—the return to ordinary human life can feel jarring, even unbearable.

NDErs frequently speak of their experience as “more real than real.” Upon return, the world they once knew can seem hollow, rushed, aggressive, or misaligned. Many try, and fail, to re-assimilate into society as they once knew it. Why? Because something deep within them has changed. Because they are no longer the person who left.

To thrive again—not merely survive—NDErs require a radically different way of being. They need space, silence, kindness, and authenticity. They need environments that honour sensitivity and stillness, and relationships that resonate with soul-level truth. This article explores the multidimensional needs of NDErs upon return, including changes in energy, lifestyle, values, and community, and offers insight into how loved ones, caregivers, and clinicians can support their post-NDE reality.

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When the Light Overwhelms: How to Support a Loved One Facing a Spiritual Emergency After a Near-Death Experience
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

When the Light Overwhelms: How to Support a Loved One Facing a Spiritual Emergency After a Near-Death Experience

Near-death experiences (NDEs) are often described as deeply loving, peaceful, and even euphoric events. But what happens when the return to everyday life brings not clarity, but confusion? Not peace, but psychological or spiritual crisis? For some NDErs, the intensity of their experience does not gently integrate into their lives—it erupts into a period of acute distress known as a spiritual emergency.

If you are a partner, friend, or family member of someone who has had an NDE and is now navigating a spiritual or psychological crisis, this blog is for you. With compassion, clarity, and grounded insight, we’ll explore how you can support your loved one through this deeply vulnerable time—and care for yourself along the way.

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When Everything Changes: How Near-Death Experiences Transform Relationships
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

When Everything Changes: How Near-Death Experiences Transform Relationships

Near-death experiences (NDEs) are often profound, life-altering events that can impact not just the individual who experienced it, but also those around them. If your partner, close friend, or loved one has had an NDE, you may notice subtle—or at times dramatic—changes in their personality, beliefs, behaviors, or emotional responses. These shifts can be confusing, inspiring, or even destabilising to relationships if not well understood. In this article, we explore what partners and friends might witness in the aftermath of an NDE, and how to navigate these changes with compassion, understanding, and support.

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Holding Space for the Sacred: How to Support Someone After a Near-Death Experience
Lily Amorous Lily Amorous

Holding Space for the Sacred: How to Support Someone After a Near-Death Experience

When someone you love or work with has had a near-death experience (NDE), it can feel as though they’ve gone somewhere beyond—and returned with a soul you both recognise and don’t. They may carry the memory of light, peace, beings, or vast cosmic knowledge. Or they may have returned through the darkness of a void, a tunnel, or a place they struggle to describe. However their journey unfolded, their return is rarely simple.

What many people don’t realise is that the most challenging part of an NDE isn’t necessarily what happened on “the other side”—it’s the part that comes afterward.

This is known as the re-entry. And it’s where you, as a supporter, companion, or professional, play an essential role.

In this article, we’ll explore how to support someone who has had an NDE with compassion, clarity, and care—so they can integrate their experience into life with dignity, safety, and meaning.

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